Ok simple women are making life a living hell for us quality woman out there in the dating world! I used to blame men for being so impatient with the dating process, wanting women to take care of them financially, and not standing up and being an independent man. Not anymore. I place 50% of the blame for this on simple women!
Simple women accept the low standards from some of these men. They take them into their homes knowing that they have no intentions on working and helping out around the house. They also give them sex on the first encounter. I would say first “date” however, these types of men don’t date, so we shall just refer to these as “encounters.”
Simple women don’t require dates, have sex on the first encounter, send naked pics, allow men to live with them(the lease is in her name and he pays nothing), allows him to drive her car (he contributes no gas money) and she pays for their vacation. They are pathetic!
How does this affect quality women? There are more of them than us!
When a man breaks up with a simple woman and comes across quality woman, he is expecting us to behave like her! When we do not, he thinks that we are stuck up and have too high of a standard. If we don’t do something for him, a simple woman will! Where is the incentive for him to come up to a normal standard?
I used to be utterly confused about the way men behave on these online dating sites. I thought their behavior was so contradictory to their words. “Seeking a long term relationship,” “Searching for the right one,” “Nice guy searching for nice girl.” I have been seeing these headlines on for the last 7 months I have spent online searching for a relationship. I have had so many men tell me that they are looking for someone they can trust, someone who is moral and can be “the one.” But what was so confusing was the questions they would ask me during our chats. “What size are your breasts?” “What is your bra size?” ”Wanna come over now? ”Can u send me a pic?” Now the fact that I have uploaded 4 clear full body shots on the site. They want nude pics sent to their phone.
Now, I realize that men are visual, men are sexually driven and blah, blah, blah, however, how do you think you are going to find “A nice girl to have a relationship with?”
I have come to the conclusion: maybe men do want a woman in their life that they can trust, love and marry, however, they don’t know how to start a relationship anymore? They don’t realize they need to talk on the phone a bit, date for a while and then “seal the deal.” It was so much easier in high school, college, in their 20′s, but after a seriously painful break-up, they don’t know how to restart and begin a new relationship from scratch. They want to meet a woman and jump straight to the “nesting” stage and get comfortable right away. Men become so impatient with the “getting to know you” phase and become bored. Is this the case or am I just wrong?